Eight Tricks to Giving Her Great Oral

Giving her great oral isn’t about fancy tricks or trying to copy porn. It’s about paying attention, taking your time, and making her feel completely desired. These eight simple moves are the ones I use every time I want her to lose control — and they work like crazy.

“There is nothing better than a bombastic orgasm from getting your pussy licked.” — Lauren, 31

The Eight Tricks to Giving Her Great Oral

1. Start with teasing – Kiss and lick her inner thighs and lower belly first. Make her wait and ache for your tongue. This builds massive anticipation.
2. Use flat, slow licks – Lay your tongue flat and lick slowly from the bottom of her vulva all the way up to her clit. Repeat this a few times before focusing on the clit.
3. Focus on the clit with consistent rhythm – Once she’s really turned on, use gentle circles or up-and-down strokes on her clit. Keep the same rhythm — consistency is what makes her come.
4. Add a finger or two while your lips stay on her clit – Slide one or two fingers inside her pussy while your lips and tongue stay focused on her clit. At first, only go in to about the first knuckle — the entrance to a woman’s pussy is the most sensitive part. As she gets more turned on, some women love three fingers while you keep licking. It just depends on her — pay attention to her moans and body and she’ll show you exactly what feels best.
5. Use light suction – Gently suck her clit into your mouth while you continue licking. The combination feels incredible for most women.
6. Hum or moan while licking – The vibrations from your voice travel straight to her clit and intensify everything.
7. Change positions – Try her on her back with a pillow under her hips, or have her sit on your face so she can control the pressure.
8. Don’t stop when she gets close – Most women need you to keep the exact same rhythm right through her orgasm. If you change it at the last second she can lose the peak.

Make It Better

• Use a little flavored lube or edible massage oil — it makes everything taste and feel even better.
• Whisper dirty talk between licks. Tell her how good she tastes and how much you love making her come.
• Keep your hands busy — caress her breasts, thighs, or hold her hips to pull her closer.
• Pay attention to her breathing and moans — they tell you exactly what she likes.
• Notice how one side of her clit is usually more sensitive than the other. Spend a little extra time on that sweet spot once you find it.
• Use the smooth bottom of your tongue instead of the top. The top is rough and often feels too intense on her clit — the bottom feels soft and warm and drives her crazy.
• Use one hand to gently push back on her pubis. This helps expose her clit from its hood and makes every lick feel even more direct and intense.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

• Going straight for the clit too fast — she needs warm-up time.
• Using your tongue like a jackhammer — slow and steady wins the race.
• Stopping right when she’s about to come — keep the rhythm going.
• Thinking oral is just foreplay — many women come hardest from oral alone.
• Surprising her with a finger in her ass — anal fingering can feel amazing for some women, but never spring it on her without checking first.

Ready to give her great oral tonight? Pick one or two of these tricks and try them. She’ll thank you — probably more than once.