The squirting orgasm, the Holy Grail of all female orgasms.
Thankfully, squirting is much more than a sexual talent only porn stars have. It happens to real women in real life.
Every woman can ejaculate, just like every man. It’s just a matter of understanding her body and using the right sequence of sex moves.
If you’re a guy who wants to make his lover soak the sheets, this is the video for you.
FOCUS ON THE G-SPOT
The key to female sexual pleasure is the clitoris. To give a woman a tried-and-true orgasm, focus on her clit. To make a woman squirt, on the other hand, you’ll have to focus on her G-spot.
Most women need rapid and intense manipulation of their G-spot in order to squirt. This hidden trigger can be found on the roof of the vagina, about two inches inside the vaginal opening.
It’s easy to reach with your fingers or a toy.
As a woman gets close to a “G-spot orgasm,” she usually will clench up. This is natural. Another thing: It feels a lot like you have to pee. She has to relax — even push — to become a gusher.
My favorite technique for giving a woman an G-spot orgasm combines clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration. It’s called the “combination orgasm.”
Some positions make it easier to do this during intercourse, which is always fucking awesome!
The vagina is most sensitive a few inches from the opening. I prefer inserting two fingers to rub the area on the top of her vagina just past her pubic bone. I can use my thumb or my tongue to stroke her clit at the same time.
DON’T FALL FOR THE PORN HYPE
Porn stars’ theatrical shrieks of pleasure aren’t the only unrealistic part of their performances.
Squirting scenes in porn are like anything we see on camera — it’s exaggerated and some cases just fake.
Real squirting, for example, doesn’t always gush out like a fire hose. All women squirt to a degree, but shooting across the room isn’t something any woman I’ve been with has ever done.
YES, THERE’S SOME URINE
Squirters and squirt-lovers alike were upset when a study in “The Journal of Sexual Medicine” found that squirting is nothing more than forced urination. Understandably so — it made their mad sex skills seem gross.
While many gushers vehemently disputed the study, it wasn’t entirely wrong. If you look at the structure of the G-spot, it’s not large enough to hold the amount of fluid in most ejaculation porn scenes.
When a woman squirts, there is about 1 teaspoon of prostatic-like fluid — female ejaculate — the rest is fresh urine from the bladder.
When I’ve experienced authentic female ejaculation, it’s always been a little splash not a ‘spray’ across the room. But hey, if it feels good, who cares?
If it’s something you’re both ready to try, remember to keep some towels nearby.
What I’ve given you here is just the basics. For more techniques watch this video demonstration.