There’s a reason that the Kama Sutra has been the go-to sex position guide for thousands of years.
When most people think of the Kama Sutra, they might think about detailed illustrated books entailing acrobatic poses to create the most awesome sexual experiences ever.
Not all of the 64 positions Vatsayana describes in the original Kama Sutra are acrobatic moves that require you to be a contortionist to pull off. Thanks to the Internet, most of them are probably already familiar to you.
Here are the ones worth trying tonight.
1. The Lotus
She sits on his lap facing him with her legs wrapped around his waist. You move together in slow, grinding circles while staying face-to-face.
Why you’ll love it:
This position keeps him incredibly deep while letting you control the rhythm. The eye contact and full-body closeness make it feel intimate and intense at the same time. Many women say it creates that “we’re completely connected” feeling they crave.
Pro tip: Kiss his neck and tell him how good he feels while you’re moving on him.
2. The Cowgirl
She’s on top, but instead of bouncing, lean forward and grind your clit against his pubic bone while he thrusts up slowly.
Why you’ll love it:
This gives you direct clitoral stimulation while he stays deep inside. It’s one of the easiest ways to orgasm during penetration — something a lot of young women still struggle with.
Pro tip: Set the pace yourself. When you find your rhythm, notice how your breathing changes and your thighs start to tremble.
3. The Spooning
Lie on your sides with him behind you. He slides in deep and keeps his movements slow and grinding.
Why you’ll love it:
It feels incredibly intimate and safe. You can relax completely while he reaches around and plays with your clit. Perfect for morning sex or when you want to feel close without putting in too much effort.
Pro tip: Kiss the back of his neck and tell him how warm and wet you feel.
4. The Prone Bone
You lie on your stomach with a pillow under your hips. He enters from behind and grinds deep and slow.
Why you’ll love it:
This angle hits your G-spot and A-spot beautifully. The pillow lifts you just enough to make every thrust feel deeper and more intense. Many women describe this one as “overwhelming in the best way.”
Pro tip: Reach underneath and gently rub your clit while he stays deep inside you.
5. The Crouching Tiger (Amazon / Squat Ride)
He lies on his back with his knees bent. You squat over him (feet flat on the bed) and lower yourself down.
Why you’ll love it:
You get full control over depth and speed while he can thrust up powerfully from below. It feels dominant and primal, but you’re the one in charge. Great when you want to feel powerful in bed.
Pro tip: Look him in the eyes and tell him to take what you need.
6. The Standing Carry
He stands while you wrap your legs around his waist. He holds your ass and lets you ride him.
Why you’ll love it:
It’s spontaneous, intense, and makes you feel completely taken. The eye contact and full-body contact create that “I can’t get enough of you” energy.
Pro tip: Only try this if he’s strong enough to hold you comfortably — safety first.
These six positions are perfect for women who already have some sexual experience but want to feel more connected, more turned on, and more satisfied.
The best part? You don’t need to be a gymnast. You just need to slow down, pay attention to how your body responds, and stay present with him.
